01 / 57 PAGES · TWO PDF VERSIONS
The VIP Relationship Workbook
Sit down with one page instead of a long speech. Try a check-in, work through a reflection prompt, or take on the 30-day connection challenge—on paper or in a fillable PDF.
YOUR RELATIONSHIP, BEYOND THE ROUTINE
Feel like a team again.
For the evenings when “How was your day?” turns into another list of things to do, here’s somewhere else to start: a thoughtful question, a shared check-in, or guidance for a difficult conversation. You can preview real workbook pages today; seven MP3 audio lessons are already recorded.
ONE-TIME VIP COLLECTION$25
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ACTUAL PRODUCT PAGES
EVERYTHING IN THE VIP COLLECTIONNot another folder of PDFs.
Not another folder of PDFs.
A place to begin.
Imagine a question over evening tea, a check-in on the couch, or a date idea that doesn’t take hours to plan. Here are the real tools behind those moments.
02 / A PLAN YOU CAN FOLLOW AT YOUR PACE
90-Day Guided Companion
Prefer not to decide what comes next? Follow weekly themes across 90 days at your own pace. Some exercises come from the main workbook, reorganized into a guided path.
03 / READY-TO-USE CONVERSATION STARTERS
50 Deep Conversation Cards
Fifty thoughtful prompts for the conversations that rarely fit between errands: memories you haven’t revisited, hopes you haven’t shared, and feelings worth making time for.
04 / ONE NEW IDEA FOR EVERY WEEK OF THE YEAR
52 Date Idea Cards
When “we should plan a date” keeps becoming “maybe next week,” choose from 52 simple ideas—including ways to enjoy being together without spending much.
05 / INCLUDED IN THE VIP COLLECTION
Weekly Marriage Planner (52 Weeks)
A full year of weekly prompts and simple rituals for making time to connect, included in the $25 collection.
06 / PDF GUIDES + 7 MP3 RECORDINGS
7 Guided Couples Lessons
Seven guided topics—from listening without defensiveness to sharing everyday responsibilities—with questions and practical exercises. Seven MP3 audio lessons have been recorded to accompany the written guides.
VIP Relationship Collection
Ready to make room for more us?
One complete collection of guided tools for thoughtful conversations and everyday connection.
$25
One-time purchase · No subscription
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WHAT'S INSIDE, AT A GLANCEWhat’s in the bundle.
What’s in the bundle.
At a glance.
A quick look at what you’ll receive when the full collection launches. Work through it on your schedule, not someone else’s.
57
workbook pages
With printable and fillable PDF versions
90
days of guidance
A flexible journey, not a required deadline
50 + 52
conversation & date cards
Prompts to talk and ideas for time together
7
guided lesson topics
PDF guides and 7 recorded MP3 audio lessons
WHAT’S INCLUDED—AND WHAT ISN’TOne complete bundle.
One complete bundle.
No inflated promises.
Workbooks you can print or fill in. The 57-page Workbook comes in two PDF versions. The 90-day companion reorganizes some of the same exercises into a guided day-by-day format, so you can choose how to use them.
Seven lessons you can read or listen to. The written guides cover seven topics, accompanied by seven completed MP3 audio recordings of those same lessons.
What the bundle means. Seven lesson topics, each with a written guide and recorded MP3 audio lesson. The two formats do not represent separate lessons.
SEE REAL PAGES BEFORE YOU DECIDESee exactly what
See exactly what
you’re getting.
Six real pages from the 57-page workbook, including conversation prompts, exercises, and the 90-day roadmap. No invented mockups.
INSIDE THE VIP WORKBOOK
Your weekly check-in
Move beyond “How was your day?” and check in with each other.
Use three clear prompts to talk about appreciation, stress, and support.
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ONE WAY TO BEGIN
Instead of: “We only talk about chores.” Try: “What’s one thing that made you feel supported this week?”
An illustrative conversation starter, not a customer testimonial or promised result.Sample pages from the actual 57-page VIP workbook. The full workbook and other collection resources are not downloadable from this preview.
See the Full CollectionSIMPLE TO START
01 · ChooseExplore the real sample before launch.02 · DownloadSave your files when checkout opens.03 · ConnectStart with one question, on your own or together.
THE POWER OF BETTER QUESTIONS
“The quality of your life is determined by the quality of the questions you ask yourself.”
Sometimes, a more meaningful conversation begins with a better question.
Independent quotation for reflection; no affiliation with or endorsement of Eleanor Hayes is implied.
REAL PAGES · FREE SAMPLE · NO SIGNUPTry a real page.
Try a real page.
See how it feels.
Before deciding, try one real weekly check-in from Feel Like a Team Again. Download five sample pages free—no email or payment—and see how the questions feel when you actually use them.
5 genuine pagesNo email requiredNo payment required
Download 5 Free Pages Selected pages from the 57-page VIP Workbook. This free preview is not the full collection. Seven MP3 audio lessons are recorded and will be delivered with the paid collection.WHEN YOU WANT A LITTLE GUIDANCE7 Guided Audio
7 Guided Audio
Lessons.
Sometimes “Can we talk?” is the hardest part. The complete VIP Collection is designed around seven guided lesson topics that help you approach conversations about listening, boundaries, appreciation, and shared responsibilities with a little more direction.
Each written lesson includes questions and a practical exercise. Matching MP3 audio lessons accompany the written guides—so you can read or listen to the same seven topics.
7 MP3 audio tracksListen at your paceQuestions & exercisesPut ideas into practice
The seven MP3 lessons have been recorded. Audio files are part of the planned purchase bundle; free audio playback is not offered on this preview site.
ELEANOR HAYESGUIDED LESSONS · 07
READ OR LISTENMore than words.
A way forward.
THE SEVEN LESSONS, AT A GLANCE
Start with the conversation you need most.
Choose a topic that feels relevant now: listening, boundaries, appreciation, conflict, or sharing the day-to-day load. Each written lesson has questions and an exercise; seven MP3 recordings accompany the written lessons.
Starting a Conversation Without Defensiveness
Begin a difficult conversation with a clear request instead of blame.
Listening to Understand
Practice listening without interrupting or jumping straight to solutions.
Requests and Personal Boundaries
Make a request respectfully and talk about personal space.
When an Argument Heats Up
Recognize rising tension, agree on a pause, and return to talk calmly.
Warm Appreciation Every Day
Notice small acts of care and express genuine gratitude.
Money, Household Tasks, and Fairness
Discuss the unseen work of everyday life with less blame.
Our Relationship Agreement and the Road Ahead
Create a flexible shared agreement for how you want to treat each other.
The seven recorded MP3 lessons and written guides cover the same topics. Full audio files will be delivered when checkout launches.
IF YOUR PARTNER ISN’T READY YETWhat if I'm the
What if I'm the
only one trying?
You can open a reflection page on your own. Later, if the moment feels right, invite your partner into a single question rather than presenting a whole plan. It should feel like an invitation, not a test.
Your partner may or may not want to join. A workbook can’t change someone else’s mind, but it can help you get clearer about what you want to express. The invitation should always be their choice.
Start with a Free PageCHOOSE WHAT FITS YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Is this right for you?
A workbook isn’t right for every situation. Here’s when these self-guided tools might help—and when another kind of support would make more sense.
You want a place to start.
- You’re tired of every conversation turning into logistics.
- You’d rather try a good question than give another long speech.
- You want something flexible you can try together—or on your own.
You need more than a workbook.
- You need individualized therapy, counseling, or crisis support.
- You’re looking for a guaranteed way to change your partner.
- You want live, one-on-one coaching rather than self-guided materials.
If a relationship involves abuse, threats, or coercion, prioritize safety and qualified support. No workbook should be used to pressure a partner.
HOW WE THINK ABOUT THESE RESOURCESThoughtful tools.
Thoughtful tools.
Clear expectations.
You should be able to preview the materials, understand their limits, and know how they are reviewed before deciding.
Real-life starting points
We focus on the everyday moments couples recognize: not feeling heard, struggling to make time, or wanting calmer conversations.
Tools you can actually see
Instead of asking you to trust a promise, we show real workbook pages and offer a free sample to try on your own.
AI-created. Human-reviewed.
Eleanor Hayes is a fictional AI-created character. A real person reviews our resources for clarity, respectful language, and practical usefulness. These educational tools are not therapy.
A clear launch checklist
Before opening checkout, we plan to proofread and check the files, finish all seven recordings, test downloads, and publish complete purchasing terms.
THE IDEAS BEHIND THE EXERCISES
Research-informed ideas. Everyday conversations.
Our self-guided resources explore emotional openness, attentive listening, appreciation, shared experiences, and handling disagreements with care. These themes appear in relationship research, and we have adapted them into approachable, original exercises for everyday life.
The Eleanor Hayes Workbook and its 90-day program have not been clinically evaluated as a product. The studies below concern related principles and programs, not proof that our specific exercises will improve any individual relationship. These educational tools are not therapy or professional counseling.
Read the research behind our approachTHE PRACTICAL DETAILSA clear picture.
A clear picture.
Before you buy.
$25. Once. No subscription. The complete VIP Collection is priced at $25 as a one-time purchase, not a monthly membership.
Download it. Make it yours. The launch bundle will include printable and fillable PDFs, plus seven recorded MP3 audio lessons. Save your purchased files on your device or personal storage and keep your copies without an expiration date. No physical shipment.
Type or print. Use a PDF reader that supports fillable forms, such as Adobe Acrobat Reader, or print the paper-friendly version. We haven’t tested every field in GoodNotes, Notability, or Apple Books.
Checkout is coming. Download delivery will be enabled when the store launches. Before accepting payment, we’ll publish the provider, delivery instructions, refund terms, and support contact. No payments are being accepted now.
BEFORE YOU DECIDEDownload 5 Free Sample Pages
Before you choose, let’s clear things up.
What exactly is included in the VIP Collection?
The planned bundle includes a 57-page VIP Relationship Workbook in printable and fillable PDF formats, a 90-day guided companion, 50 Deep Conversation Cards, 52 Date Idea Cards, and seven guided PDF lessons. Seven MP3 audio recordings for those lesson topics have been completed. The 52-week Weekly Marriage Planner is also included in the standard bundle. We'll confirm the complete file list before checkout opens.
What if my partner doesn't want to participate?
You can begin on your own with reflection pages and prompts. If your partner wants to join later, choose a question to try together. These tools can help you express yourself, but they can't make another person change or participate.
Can I try the workbook first?
Absolutely. Download five real pages from the VIP Workbook for free. No email address or payment is required. Try a weekly check-in and see how the exercises feel before choosing the collection.
Can I fill it out on my device or print it?
Both. The VIP Workbook comes as a fillable PDF for typing and a separate printable version for writing by hand. For form fields, use a PDF reader that supports them, such as Adobe Acrobat Reader. We haven't confirmed full compatibility with every tablet note-taking app.
How is the 90-day companion different from the main workbook?
The main 57-page workbook gathers the tools in one place. The 90-day companion presents some of the same exercises in a guided, week-by-week format. It offers a different way to use the material—not 90 days of entirely new exercises. You're free to go at your own pace.
Are the seven audio lessons included?
Yes. The seven written guides include discussion questions and practical exercises, with seven recorded MP3 audio lessons covering the same topics. No video lessons are included. Full paid downloads are not available on this preview site.
Is the Weekly Marriage Planner included?
Yes. The 52-week Weekly Marriage Planner is part of the standard $25 VIP Collection, not a time-limited bonus.
Is this a subscription, and can I keep my downloads?
No subscription. The VIP Collection is a one-time $25 purchase. When checkout is available, your purchased PDFs and seven MP3 audio lessons will be delivered as downloadable files. You can save your copies to your computer or personal storage and keep them without an expiration date. This does not promise unlimited re-downloads from our website. Checkout and paid-file delivery are not live in this preview; final instructions and terms will be published before launch.
Is Eleanor Hayes a real relationship expert?
Eleanor Hayes is a fictional AI-generated brand persona—not a licensed therapist, psychologist, or relationship counselor. Our materials are self-guided educational resources. We show real product pages and openly describe what is still being prepared for launch.
What if I want to start on my own?
You can begin with personal reflection pages and conversation prompts without requiring your partner to join. Invite them only if and when they feel comfortable; these tools should never be used to pressure someone.
Who checks the materials if Eleanor is AI-created?
A real person reviews our resources before publication for clarity, respectful wording, and practical usefulness. We do not claim licensed clinical review or that the collection is a substitute for therapy.
Can these exercises replace couples counseling?
No. They aren't therapy, crisis support, or a promise to repair a relationship. If you're experiencing abuse, threats, or coercion, prioritize your safety and seek qualified support. No workbook should be used to pressure someone into participating.
The store is not open yet. We will not request payment before the collection is complete and checkout is approved.